Will he ever trust me again?

Anonymous Writes:
I was flirting online with a guy from another state that is friends with my friends. and my bf who i lived with would get angry and become violent sometimes, when i'd ignore him to talk to this guy.

he said it wasn't right for me to ask to use his things and live in his house and then betray him like that, i said it was harmless and i was just going along with there jokes
one day he got violent and backhanded me, and went to bed. the next night i went out and the guy was in town and i invited him to my sisters and me and him had sex. the next day my bf told me he was sorry for how he acted but that he was still angry about me flirting.
i accepted his apology and figured i'd forget what had happened.
a few nights later i was invited to a party the guy was there and one thing lead to another. i called my bf right after and asked him to come get me, it was around 4 am and he was already really mad about me going he knew the guy was there. but he agreed i was so happy with him, i went for a shower and then slept with my bf
a few days later we had an argument about something small and i got angry and told him what had happen to hurt him. he left for about 2 weeks and didn't talk to me.

i really love my bf and he has taken me back but i have so little patience for how he doesn't trust me anymore. his suspicious if i have male friends and if i go out or if i talk to them online. his no longer violent but he gets sick of me easily and will leave the house for the night if i upset him.

the thing with that guy is over.

how can i make things ok again? will he ever trust me?



RealTalk Guru's Writes: You ignore your Boyfriend to talk with dudes online? you go to a party knowing your boyfriend is going to be uncomfortable with you there? and then to top it off you sex up a guy there, wash ur a$$ and than give ur man some sloppy seconds???? and you wonder why you caught the knuckles? lol I don't condone violence towards women but it's as if you were trying to get fought...and I'm not one to judge but how can you expect to have patience for his trust when you've slept with some other dude? I'm surprised he even took you back to be honest....if my girl ever slept around on me I'd be out the door same as ur boyfriend only i wouldn't come back (unless of course it's my house, than she'd have to be the one to get the F out lol) but naw seriously....consider yourself very lucky because you kinda brought this on yourself, it started off as harmless flirting like you said but look what a little harmless flirting turned into...all i can say is you got alot of *** to kiss and if he doesn't take you back than let this be a lesson learned to your dumb a$$.