I really like this girl but she told me i have to be more of an asshole what does that mean?

Anonymous writes:im a naturally sweet guy im not anytype of asshole to girls... also why would you want someone to be an asshole if thats what you are trying to get away from?

Real Talk Guru's write:
Well my friend it means that every time you see her she does'nt want to receive flowers and candy, she wants a punch with a black eye...LoL i Kid!
but yeah man that's sometimes how it is in a sense that a majority of women like the bad boys, reasons being is because just as men sometimes think/treat women as objects, women in turn treat men as projects. They want to take a bad boy and mold and change him into a decent civil human being.I bet now you're asking "why would a women invest all that time trying to change a bad boy into a nice guy instead of just asking a nice guy?" well woman want that credibility for doing the "impossible"..plus bad boys give off that mysterious vibe that drives woman crazy. In short Bad boys are mysterious and unpredictable whereas nice guys live by the book and obey the rules( and there's nothing wrong with that)..so my advice to you homie is to just keep it movin..let this bish find a project bad boy to waste her time on, if you're a quality dude, than don't make a bish change you.



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