My friend is obsessed with the WRONG guy.?

Anonymous writes: okay, my friend has been liking this guy on and off for the past school year. i had noooo problem with it, but just recently i found out that he smokes weed and is a reaaally bad kid. I asked her if thats what she really wants and if she cares that he smokes and shes just like "thats not my problem". also she acting way more different and ditsy and it gets soo annoying when she constantly talks about him, should i do something or just let it be.

please help


Real Talk Guru's write: I know you mean well for your girl and your trying to look out for her
but she's in that puppy love stage and is blinded by love and there's not much you can do about it....you simply gotta let nature run it's course...if this guy is as bad as you say then she won't listen to that from you, she's gotta experience that for herself and learn from her mistake...and if it is infact a mistake and she finally comes to her senses...make sure ur there for her as a friend and not one of those B****s who say "I told you so"

we're only human and we don't always make the right choices but we learn from the mistakes we make and rely on friends and family to be there, not to judge but to support us.

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