How can I fix my relationship?

Anonymous writes: I love this girl to death I really do. We've been going out for 2 years now, but it just seems like things suck. She's totally all about me, but I just don't feel as strong about her. Like I just don't feel like kissing anymore.... or cuddling...... or just plain doing it you know?... I know this sounds dumb, but I really don't want to lose this girl and I love her so much. She's nothing but nice to me... and I'm sorry if it takes a few beers for me to realize what I have. I'm a jerk to her for no reason.... how can I stop and rejuvenate the love/passion we had? Serious answers only. I'm sort of dunk so I'm sorry if this sounds dumb.



Real Talk Guru's write: hmm well it sounds like you love her a lot no question.....unless that's just ur drunk side coming out....anyway my advice to you homie is that if you truly do love her and don't want to let her go you need to go back to the beginning and try to rekindle what sparked your relationship in the first place...a lot of time relationships fail because the thrill of the chase is gone and everything becomes routine...but it's up to both partners to spice things up every now and again whether it be romantically or sexually, you both need to be more spontaneous....it's either the fire and passion that u guys are now lacking or you just feel smothered by her and need your space.


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